• First, think about your values and what is important to you.
• Then think ahead to various common scenarios such as those described in this document and decide how you would want to be treated if such situations arise. (NOTE: If you do not want to think about specific circumstances, it can be enough to convey your general values to the person who you appoint to act as your Proxy under a Health Care Power Of Attorney.)

Even thinking about these subjects can be emotionally unsettling for a healthy person, much less for a person who has been diagnosed. Before proceeding, think about which is the easiest way for you to deal with this subject. Is it better to think it through first on your own? To first talk about it with someone such as your spouse, significant other or best friend? To think in terms of what you would want for your best friend or child?

Consider discussing this subject and particular treatments with your doctor. Your doctor likely has first hand experience with the problems and conflicts that can arise, and may be able to contribute ideas or advice. To allow time for a thoughtful discussion, make an appointment just for that purpose.

Once your opinion is formed you are ready to move to drafting the actual documents to effectuate those wishes. See Living Wills, Healthcare Power Of Attorney and Do Not Resuscitate.