Disclosure: Sharing With Family, Friends, and Acquaintances
How To Tell
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Ideally, choose an apporpriate setting and time.
- Select an appropriate setting that is quiet and comfortable - and is separate fromthe distractions of day-to-day life.
- Set aside a special time when both you and the other person or persons are not distracted and can focus. Make sure there is time for questions and for discussion. People need time to absorb the information.
Consider having someone else with you when you tell a particular person to support you and/or the other person - perhaps someone who know the person well, and understands your condition.
If you must tell the news on the telephone, select a time when the person is not distracted or rushed. You can ask if this is a good time - or set a later time if it is not.
Start the conversation by warning the person that you have bad or serious news. Then quickly and briefly explain the situation.
Watch for a person's signals about how much he or she wants to know. For instance, if he or she asks questions. It may be that there will be a need for several conversations.
NOTE: If the news can be particularly devastating for the person, such as person with a weak heart or a nervous condition, consider speaking with a health professional or a clergy person for guidance before telling.
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